We laugh so often that we never stop to ask what is it for. In fact ask the question and the recipient will be waiting for the punchline (thinking it is a joke!). But in a business context what is humour for? Why do we have some of our best times when we enjoy a good laugh in a group? Are there negative aspects to humour? Why do we sometimes feel angry or hurt when in a group that are laughing at a joke – maybe at our expense?
Well, like many of the social tools we use, humour is such a part of our human interactions that we use it and react to it unconsciously. But where did it come from and where did it start?
Some scientists reckon that humour was originated to help with procreation.
Scientists have proposed a variety of evolutionary theories of humour that mostly boil down to getting an edge in the chase for a mate. American evolutionary biologist Richard D Alexander, for example, suggested in his 1986 book Ostracism and Indirect Reciprocity: the Reproductive Significance of Humour, that the point of telling jokes was to raise one’s own status, lower that of certain other individuals, and enhance social unity…..And to get laid.
In the work environment, status is important and humour is used with varying degrees of success to raise that of the joker and reduce that of the target. If you are the target of an experienced joker, you may be seething inside but will have to laugh along as you find it impossible to find enough ground to take issue. How many times have you thought up a witty riposte hours later and wished you could have used it.
Humour is sometimes used to make serious points and to communicate messages that the originator cannot or is afraid to communicate seriously. This a poor use of humour as again it may be divisive.
Humour for social unity is one that we all enjoy because it is inclusive and non divisive whereas status driven humour may be exclusive and divisive. Status humour about groups can include social unity as a by product but it applies to specific groups inhabited by the joker.
So use humour in the workplace to promote social unity, to release tension and create a friendly and enjoyable workplace.
Beware of humour that promotes individual status or agendas.

Leadership has historically caused much debate and raised many questions:
The good news is that we all can be leaders. It requires the right circumstances. It requires practice.
We will not be leaders all of the time but we need only be leaders for enough time to get the job done.
The following will explore these questions in more detail.
Aristotle defined leadership as requiring Knowledge,Skills and Practical Wisdom – the ability to see the good and realize it in a specific situation. All three are necessary and mutually supportive.
In The Art of War, Sun Tzu characterized leadership as a mix of five traits: Intelligence, Credibility, Humaneness, Courage, and Discipline.
Montgomery defined leadership as:
“The capacity and will to rally men and women to a common purpose and the character which inspires confidence”.
The Arbinger Institute talks about self deception & “being in the box”. Being “in the box” means being being boxed in by your fears, doubts, uncertainties and limiting beliefs such that you do not connect with others and do not focus on that you care about. Good leaders are honest with themselves and are ” in the box” much less of the time.
Peter Drucker states “Your first and foremost job as a leader is to manage your own energy, and help manage the energy of those around you”.

Steven Radcliffe talks about a leader:
Leadership is not just about competencies, skills and personality. It’s first and foremost about being in touch with what you care about and then going for it. You won’t be a great leader for things you don’t care about!
By its nature a better future involves working in areas that are new and where you are instigating change to achieve this better future. Managers normally focus on delivery within defined parameters and deal with much less uncertainty.
A better future requires strategy and planning once the idea has been conceived. This will ensure that it is indeed a better future.

Peter Drucker states “Your first and foremost job as a leader is to manage your own energy…..and then help manage the energy of those around you”.
It does all start with you, how you manage yourself to be at your best more of the time.
If you are at your best, you are focussed on the future and not held back by the present. You are more engaging and this creates a powerful platform to help others to be at their best.
The Arbinger Institute talks about “being in the box”. Being in the box means not being being boxed in by your fears, doubts uncertainties and limiting beliefs such that you do not connect with others and do not focus on that you care about. Good leaders are in the box much less of the time.

All of us have the capability to be leaders but we need to believe in ourselves as a leader and get into the right frame of mind. An effective leader is “Playing to Win” and is not just “Trying not to Lose”. As an effective leader you are “At Your Best” and not “Just Surviving” . An effective leader will exhibit high energy or low energy at different times for different tasks. These are not fixed states. We all are in all of these some of the time. We will not be leaders all of the time. But the best leaders manage to be in “Play to Win” and “At Your Best” states most of time.
Leaders must make big requests so they must have relationships that are big enough to get the job done.
They must help people be at their best. They must help them overcome their limitations – their fears, doubts, uncertainties and limiting beliefs and to focus on what they care about.
Leaders must look for and remove obstacles in the environment that are hindering team progress.

Engage people so they want to work with you and build a future with you.
Crucially engagement is absolutely distinct from ‘communicating to’, ‘presenting at’ or telling.
It is about how you connect with people, how you stimulate their thinking and impact their energy.
Engaging others is a two-way interaction and its something that happens inside your relationships. It is about your ability to build relationships big enough to get the job done.
Engagement is about taking people through resistance, apathy, grudging compliance, willing compliance, to enrolled and finally to committed.

Engagement is:
Delivery is where we are all judged, is the most visible part of leadership but is not standalone. Without a compelling Future and without engaging in that future delivery of the right results will not happen.
To get great delivery you have to mean it when you make big requests. Meaning it means that your team is in no doubt of your expectations from what you say and from what you do.
For instance…making too many requests may well mean that none are done well. Not following up may mean that your team becomes distracted. Remember the maxim ” people do what you inspect, not what you expect”. There are no avoiding some difficult converstations when performance falls below that required or expected.
In delivery a leader is expected to exhibit fierce resolve, emotional fortitude, focus, discipline and resilience to ensure that the team remains focussed, acts with high energy and delivers results.
Get the best from yourself and others today but commit to growing yourself and others so that the capability to deliver increases into the future.
We become leaders through 1. Conscious Practice, 2. Using a Personal Support Team 3. Knowing and Going beyond our limits and 4. Being in the right State of Mind.
Conscious Practice. You do most of your learning in real-life situations and the more you practice the better you get. Consciously use situations and challenges as opportunities to learn and grow.
Use a personal Support Team for feedback. Identify the specific ways you want to grow as a leader, tell selected colleagues and ask them to rate you now. Then ask them if they’ll watch out for you in these areas to help you make progress.
Recognise your state of mind and work out how to ensure you are “At Your Best” and “Playing To Win”.
Recognise the triggers that push you into “Just Surviving” mode and ensure you manage or avoid them to spend more time “Playing to Win”.

The overriding challenge in sales and marketing is “To deliver business growth”.
Take the right approach.No one size fits all. So to be most efficient and effective it is best to:
The challenges will fall into two broad categories
The main ingredients of success are:
Following the diagnosis of the challenges a bespoke solution may be created.
Planning means that subsequent action will effective and efficient.
This includes Leadership, Scalable Sales Model and Hiring the best people.
Leadership means that the team energised, have clear objectives, are fully engaged and deliver the required targets wit the required cost. The team is supported by a scalable sales model which includes:
Hire the best people. Utilise a clear and professional process to identify and develop people with high potential.
Customer Acquisition is vital for revenue Growth and the creation of references to enable later customers to be acquired more efficiently. Both are key attributes of business growth.
First ensure product delivers compelling value. as perceived by the customers. Then create or develop references.
To win major breakthrough accounts will require the creation of a tailored sales process based on the customers buying process. This will help harness the resources of the company effectively, manage communication and monitor progress.
Results will be best delivered by effective leadership and professional project management.Leadership ensures that clear objectives are set and resources to deliver such objectives are secured.Then the team to deliver the results is engaged such that they are fully committed to deliver superb results.Finally the results are delivered with progress monitored and reported on at regular intervals to keep stakeholders informed.
A business model is made up of the following elements:
Diagnose where the customers pain points are in their business model:
Create a solution:-
Resolve concerns on solution, risk and price.
Communicate in customer’s language showing Return On Investment.
Deliver the solution.
Use project management tools to manage delivery.
Demonstrate that benefits have been delivered. Ensure customer satisfaction.
Communication is a fundamental part of business and personal life. We now have many different ways of communicating from face to face to phones, social media, print media and broadcast media.
With all of these communication channels we are trying to inform, persuade, motivate, coach and manage relationships.
I would like to review a very important element of commuication: the art of persuasion. And I will limit my focus to B2B communication (mainly).
Communication is always within a context or framework which may be implicit or explicit.
For some the word persuasion has ominous undertones and a worry about being manipulated.
I am assuming, in this discussion, that persuasion is used within a framework that assumes a (win: win) or positive outcome for both parties.
I assume that what I am persuading the customer to do will add value to the customer’s business and result in a (win: win) transaction.
A basic persuasion model was constructed by Aristotle and consists of three elements:-
In appealing to credibility, both the individual and the company he represents must be credible in the eyes of the audience. He must emit true sincerity.
Genuine sincerity means that you actually care about someone’s problems or concerns. It creates a certain amount of trust. And trust is the foundation of relationships.
The company builds its credibility on its successes and on its third party references. (In the B2B mainstream market (Early & Late Majority) positive references are key to credibility.)
The individual builds his individual credibility with integrity, historical success (supported by knowledge), skills and experience (as required by the audience). Initially the company brand will lend credibility to the individual but the individual must build and maintain his own over time.
In launching new products the phrase “Credibility before Visibility” is very apt. A lot of marketing and sales expense may be wasted in persuading the market to buy products that are not yet credible in the eyes of the target audience.
This using your heart as well as your head. It’s the ability to read emotions in others. It’s being able to experience from another person’s perspective. It is empathy.
It appeals to the emotions, imagination and self interest in the audience. In some cases to feel what the presenter feels.
The message evoking an emotional response may be delivered by words, messages but also by non verbal communication. The words may well be in the form of a story, a vision that transports the audience to understand the presenter’s point of view or to join him in envisioning the a particular part of the world as improved or as a better place. Music, colours, films, graphics etc. may be used to emphasize and communicate the required message.
Non verbal communication can give wither a positive or negative response. Such communication is delivered via facial expression, eye contact, gestures, posture and body orientation, humour, proximity, paralinguistics (tone, pitch, rhythm, timbre, loudness and inflection of voice), dress sense, attitude & confidence.
Emotion also includes building a relationship and a rapport that can reduce barriers to communication and engender trust which is a foundation of all human intercourse.
Whilst techniques can be used to persuade they are most effective when supported by the persuasion model above. These techniques include structure, body language, speech, maintaining attention and the darker arts of weapons of influence.
If the audience is not paying attention you are not communicating, there is no communication and no persuasion can occur. Attention is best if it rises over time.
Most people have short attention spans.
Make the message memorable and understood.
We have automatic behavior patterns that we use to simplify the modern world and enable action and void being frozen by too much analysis. These behaviour patterns make us vulnerable to persuasion by those who know how they work. These weapons of persuasion are part of thee dark arts of persuasion in that they do not always result in a win:win situation if used unscrupulously. In B2B selling , professional buying processes are designed to minimize or remove the impact of these weapons but they are used often in B2C selling.
We live in an extraordinarily complex and stimulated environment, easily the most rapidly moving and complex that has ever existed. To deal with it we need shortcuts. We can’t be expected to recognize and analyze all the aspects in each person, event and situation we encounter in even one day. We haven’t the time, energy or capacity for it. Instead, we must often use our stereotypes, our rules of thumb to classify things according to a few key features and then to respond mindlessly when one or another of these trigger features is present. Sometimes the behaviour will not be appropriate for the situation. But we expect the imperfection since the alternative is that we would be left frozen, analyzing and miss the time for action.
According to Alfred North Whitehead “civilization advances by extending the number of operations we can perform without thinking about them”. These are the key weapons.
What is leadership? What is the purpose and function of the leader? It is to deliver business growth and is achieved by 1-Set Objectives, 2-Engage & 3-Deliver.
The sales leader purpose is to deliver business growth and leads both direct and virtual teams to achieve this objective. Leadership is therefore key to business growth success.
Aristotle defined leadership as requiring Knowledge, Skills and Practical Wisdom – the ability to see the good and realize it in a specific situation. All three are necessary and mutually supportive.
Montogomery defined leadership succinctly as:
“The capacity and will to rally men and women to a common purpose and the character which inspires confidence”.
The purpose in an organisation has multiple levels. The company will normally have a vision which states why the company exists and how it will make the world a better place.
The sales team itself has a specific purpose that serves the achievement of this vision and as such will have specific objectives. The sales leader’s overall purpose is to deliver business growth. This is achieved as follows:
Leadership is not fixed and is dependent on the task at hand. It is also dependent on the type of organisation whether transformational or transactional and on the maturity of the organisation. But I find the following simple model of leadership useful.
A leader requires Knowledge, Skills (&Tools) and Practical Wisdom.
Practical WisdomKnowledge may be learned, Skills may be practiced but Practical Wisdom is grown through through experience and reflection. Practical Wisdom is the ability to see the good and realize it in a specific situation. In other words to decide and do what is effective to achieve the required objectives.
This is not a set of universal rules to be learned or a pocket guide to be drawn upon for the correct solution. It is something only achieved through experience and reflection. It is realized through the ability to relate new experiences to previous experiences, in other words to recognize patterns in situations that facilitate understanding and resolution.
Practical wisdom is supported by the qualities of the leader.
The following list is in a generic order of priority. It is derived from the book “ How to Grow Leaders” by John Adair.
Knowledge & SkillsThe knowledge and skills required may be described as:
Good Sales & Marketing knowledge & skills are the most obvious. General Management knowledge & skills enable better empathy and good communication with senior customer executives.
Project Management knowledge & skills enable better management of internal resources, better bid management and better planning. Technical knowledge & skills enable better understanding of products and how they can best be used to solve customer problems.
Skills will be supported by tools such as the sales model which enables:
Leadership knowledge & skills include:
The Purpose of a sales leader is to deliver business growth. This is achieved as with the following functions:
1 – Set ObjectivesA key purpose of a leader is to set objectives that will grow, change and add value to the organisation.
Objectives should not be dictated as they are unlikely to inspire the kind of effort and creativity that produces good results.
Objectives that are negotiated give team members an important sense of goal ownership. And people are naturally more committed to the things they own.
In addition, with this interaction the leader can be sure that the team members have the capacity and the understanding to achieve the objective. Understanding team members will help align objectives and explain them in ways that are motivational.
To set effective objectives a leader must be able to initiate an idea, inform the team and plan to determine if the objectives are feasible.
What are the characteristics of effective objectives? Most experts agree that objectives must be:
Objectives will be better received by the team if they are perceived to have intrinsic value, to matter,
and to make the world a better place. Ideally the objectives will be aligned to a company vision statement that envisions and communicates a better future.
2 – EngageThe leader may be required to hire the individuals and build the team. The leader is required to develop the individuals such that their performance improves.
Further, a leader must engage with his team and inspire them to want to deliver a great performance and achieve the assigned objectives.
In the best teams the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. Good morale, team spirit and mutual confidence between the leader and team members is the extra strength that creates a greater whole and inspires a great performance.
To engage his team effectively a leader must be adept at presenting, informing & supporting.
Engagement begins with participative goal setting ideally within the context of a positive and clear company vision statement. This is maintained through motivation, coaching and success. Success is the greatest single factor of good morale. All successes must be communicated.
Motivation is achieved through the application of rewards both intrinsic and extrinsic. Intrinsic rewards produce more intangible forms of recognition such as personal satisfaction, a sense of accomplishment, personal control over one’s work and feeling that one’s work is appreciated. Extrinsic rewards are external, tangible forms of recognition such as bonuses, pay rises, promotion and sales prizes.
Coaching is used to improve individual performance and to remove performance gaps. Used positively it can maintain and grow engagement as it facilitates individual personal growth.
Within a sales team focus is normally on extrinsic rewards but intrinsic rewards are very important and enable better performance and creativity.
3 – DeliverA leader is ultimately judged on what he and his team deliver. How they execute a plan.
To deliver a leader is required to:
The leader uses the sales model to enable him to:
Team members work best when given autonomy to deliver their goals and should know when to ask for help in removing barriers to performance. Identifying barriers to performance may be simple or may involve gathering data and problem analysis before a solution is reached. Barriers to performance often include the requisition of resources from other departments & from higher management to enable progress. They may include the resolution of a resource conflict or an interpersonal conflict.
As stated earlier the sales leader may be required to manage a virtual team in addition to his direct team to create and deliver a proposal to a prospect. Such a project may be complex and project management tools are useful to manage the delivery of a winning proposal on time and to utilise the resources of the company efficiently.
“Diagnose before you Prescribe”. Covey.
If the diagnosis is not correct then the solution may well be inappropriate or incorrect.
What are the Business Challenges?
Having diagnosed and agreed the Business Challenges in detail, the Solution may now be designed. Depending on the Business Challenges the Solution will include some or all of the modules.
Sales & Marketing Strategy. This is designed to deliver Business Growth and other Objectives
Use information on customer profile, geographic profile, product maturity, the competition and the strength of the vendor to shape the strategy. Develop Value Propositions as required to suit the particular product and customer profile.
What makes a high performance sales team? What makes a high performance sales person? Can we analyse best practice and use it to improve ordinary sales people? Are relationships important? How important is Value?
To create a high performance sales team it is useful to analyse high performance sales people to understand what makes them successful. Such best practice can then be applied to a scalable sales model that will turn ordinary performers into stars.
Based on research by Sales Performance International and recently Dixon & Adamson in the Harvard Business Review the following was found:
The most successful high performance sales teams use best practice. They learn from high performing salespeople and use this best practice to create a sales model that is used to turn ordinary sales people into stars.
A Reward System is the most basic communication from Management to its employees and Management need to ensure that what the Reward System is actually saying is what they had wanted to say.
To create an effective reward system it is best to follow three steps:
One very effective tool to make visions,missions, goals, and priorities actionable is the bull’s-eye exercise, so named because it is depicted as a three-ringed target as shown. In the outer ring go the goals and initiatives you are trying to make actionable eg customer satisfaction. In the inner-most ring goes the output of the exercise–that is, descriptions of specific employee behaviours that are deemed necessary to achieve the desired outcomes.Do not make major changes to the Reward system without first upgrading the metrics to ensure that performance can be measured. The strength of the reward system depends greatly on the competence of the metrics.
“Management gets what it inspects, not what it expects”
If something isn’t measured, you can’t give people feedback about it and they can’t improve.
In designing a competent measurement system there are major tradeoffs:
Sales Metrics may well be a mixture of rating and ranking. For instance all sales may be on a rating system but also there is a ranking system which offers a prize for top three sales people at the yearly sales management event.
“Rewards are anything that increases the probability of a future response”.
Consider money and feedback. Both are good rewards. Offering money to do something increases the likelihood that it will be done. Feedback enables people to systematically improve their performance. But whilst the high performers get most of the money rewards, the low performers tend to get most of the feedback. The key point is that some of the powerful rewards that can be offered are non financial but are often overlooked or discounted by management.
These are also known as intrinsic and extrinsic rewards. Intrinsic rewards produce more intangible forms of recognition such as personal satisfaction, a sense of accomplishment, personal control over one’s work and feeling that one’s work is appreciated. Extrinsic rewards are external, tangible forms of recognition such as bonuses, pay rises, promotion and sales prizes.
A Reward System could and should include Financial (Extrinsic) and Non Financial (Intrinsic) Rewards.
A good reward system has key components:
Question: What does a consultant do if you ask him the time?
Answer: He asks to borrow your watch, he tells you the time and then walks off with your watch.
The word consultant does have some baggage, basically because it has become a term that has been used too much to mean too many things ….some of them negative. And without a well known brand name behind it the negative baggage may come to the fore.
It is associated in some minds with many initiatives that delivered few quantifiable benefits. It is associated with high costs and sometimes with a lack of drive, initiative and creativity.
And of course unlike a doctor or a lawyer, anyone can call themselves a consultant.
Without the support of a well known consultancy brand then some of the negative market perceptions of Business Consultancy may dominate in the mind of a prospective customer and a focus on value becomes even more essential.
I have asked some questions below to answer a few questions that may explain the benefits that good business consultants can offer.
It is better that they lead with the tangible value that they can deliver very clearly as otherwise they will not brand themselves positively in the mind of the prospective audience. Without the support of a well known consultancy brand then this approach becomes essential as some of the negative market perceptions of Business Consultancy may dominate.